Looking for Advice

What's the common thought process... Scenario... You just meet someone and start talking.. keep in mind.. this is over a app - so the next couple of days.. the only conversation we have is only at 4 a.m. her time.. - I sent pictures of myself at work and playing with buddy,.. the few times she sent pictures, you can't view them after you open the message..one time deal - when I Express myself, she got Offensive, she said.. delete my number then.. .. I should be patient and wait.. the right one would come around.. RIGHT

Just smoke a blunt my dude

Lol.. sweet heart.. way ahead of you lol😅

Some people are slow to open up and confess their feelings, perhaps it felt too much too soon for her when you shared yours. Right ones will always, I mean always, match up to your pace. No questions asked.

OK, that's a really good point, you just made... so then in part, I should of waited a little longer, like 2 to 3 week. Then tell her about why I'm uncomfortable..? But what if she stops and have a honest friendship after the 2nd week 🤔 😕..our energy and frequency don't match

Please help me paint a picture.. but it's a little hard

You did good by coming clean with your feelings, expressing them. Now, may be she wasn't that well equipped to handle that much intensity, may be she felt ambushed, may be she wanted to take things slow, or may be she was keeping her options open. All of the above scenarios are applicable. But one thing is for sure, there was no pretense on your part, and you were keeping it real 💯. The trick here is to let the other person earn your presence, and feelings you know. Make it a 50-50 give and take kinda situation. Let others also make efforts. Otherwise, you'd be doing all the crazy work and when they don't reciprocate it'll hurt you even more. I am saying this from my personal experience. Hola from a fellow Gemini! We do all the work, don't we? 😅

Yea. . I looked forward to my good mornings and what you having for breakfast.. because im the type to surprise you 1 morning with your Favorite.. lol realize I'm a Duck 😭😭😭

Her loss, champ! You deserve better, much better. And you mention you're the kind to surprise someone with their fav breakfast, boy! Goosebumps.. coz I had actually done this for a lot of people myself, but hey! People can't really keep up with us, yes. Too bad. You ain't no duck. You are an eagle, let yourself soar high and wait for a fellow eagle to join you just as higher 😎

Small heads-up! Watch out for any hot- cold behavior. People who seem to warm up to you one moment, and then blow you off/ignore you, the next. This is a classic manipulative date game people play these days. A nice person will be nice to you 24/7. No weekends off period.

Lol.. thank you love.. your the best... girl.... By the way.. keep smiling, never stop.. your smile really makes you pop, shine ✨️ 💖

I think perhaps there's a miscommunication here. Perhaps she misunderstood something and took offensive to it? I would give it some time to see if y'all can reopen that communication, maybe hash a few things out. Otherwise I'd probably just let it be and move on. But...fingers crossed for you. 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Your advice is so sweet.. but to be honest.. I can't set myself up like that ... sorry.. I'm playing war zone.. lol.. But your right move on, .. putting Effort would get me Hurt.. Don't want to go through that stage

That's valid. Bottom line you must always always do what's best for you..I wish you all the luck. 🤗

Thank you love.. I feel alot better.. everyone that comment show good morales.. there still hope out here lol

Excuse me, I meant to say, good Morals and values. Lol I 4got to Mention values.. 😅😅 super shy Moment... lol.. here I go By the way... wow I love your eyes 💙💙.. Please don't judge me.. my picture do show me Questioning myself.. really thought it was me and I was wrong for thinking bad

Thank you muchly. 🤗

But when you said "always always do what's best for you" Made me think of this I posted this while working my double shift.. every Sunday.. sorry for venting.... lmao.. ok i promise to choose someone different next thought

Wait, why, please don't delete old comments.. it's really a good learning experience.. it would help future young adults.. help them shape there morales and values.. no one is right or wrong... In my view, your a person with Courage, and could speak up........ OK, I might be drunk now.... lmao 🤣 🤣... good night everyone, and thank you dearly 💙