People should come with warning labels

Everything else does. People should come with warning labels like warning if got problems.

I just assume everyone comes with problems and do my best to ignore them or address them if they are realistic.

Don’t you feel they could get in the way of relationships though like who wants to date someone when they know they got problems

Good luck finding anyone who doesn't. You gotta be the kind of person to carry others baggage as well as your own. Otherwise it's impossible to be in a relationship, even if you started with someone who had no baggage to begin with. Human beings create their own problems. What's important is the kind of problems they make, and how long they dwell on it. For example, if you wanna date someone but they are still getting through a breakup, yeah, that's not baggage you wanna take on. If you wanna date someone, and they have depression, adhd, ocd, or some other mental illness, you could actually provide them with relief. With little to no danger to yourself. There are many other examples, but the idea is that you focus on people who have "healthy" baggage that is reasonable and shows an experience of living life as themselves, and preferably are honest and open with others about it. (Some people may hide it because of stigma they've recieved. Just means they need some time to trust you). Not people who create their own drama and then exacerbate the issue to seem bigger than it is for pity.

Everyone has their own problems yeah , knoone is perfect

No I know I got my own problems too so I’m not against people with problems. Idk It’s hard to explain. I don’t want to burden others with my problem and I know there are people out there who don’t want to be involved when they learn you have problems. I just feel like those issues can tank something that was going well.

This is gonna hurt, but if those issues ACTUALLY tank something that is going well, that means it wasn't right. Someone should be stepping up to rectify the issue. Doesn't matter which side. One should make the effort. It's easy to forget that being in a relationship is both about being selfish and selfless. You are supposed to be selfish and say you want things and express your issues. And you are supposed to be selfless and give someone what they need in order to feel loved and appreciated. But finding that balance takes work. No one is perfect. You gotta mold yourselves to each other. That's not brute force, that's called building chemistry, and making compromises, and communicating. So don't feel bad about opening up about things that bother you, no matter what they are.

Thank you so much! I think this is an amazing answer and a beautiful reminder. I really appreciate this. I especially like how you said it needs to be both selfless and selfish. Definitely impactful

I like this thanx

Yw glad something came from the random thoughts I have

It would be nice if it was that easy

What about nutrition facts?

Too many calories

Or it shall be warning labels : stop trying to hit on ppl who are taken and stop touching a couple partner by passing by haha :) 😀 otherwise no warning label needed , IF u dont like personality , move on :) 😀

I have often said it would be handy if we could stick post-it notes on people's foreheads as we make observations about them, so we know which filters to use when that say something

😂 this could definitely be useful

Then u woudnt learn

I already do, and that's why most women don't hit on me🥲