Not much context- but it's okay to disappoint people sometimes. You don't always have to give yourself away until there's nothing left.

So true. If all you are doing is pleasing others, you are likely to lose yourself along the way. And, even from a service perspective, that's not a good thing.

Yeah I'm trying to build myself not lose myself. Setting boundaries and following them can be difficult.. 😌

Until someone dissaponts you and you are there pondering why you chose to place them as your emergency contact. 😁😀

Lol 🙈 being someone's emergency contact is on another level my friend

😂😂🤣. Hence your " not much context " phrase.

Exactly 😅

Followed then by my hypothetical 😃😄

You're def on the ball with the emojis for context 😉

You don't disappoint me. Don't tell me everything or we might run our of stuff to talk about lol 😆 I love me some me. Do you love some of you?

Haha I love me some me too.. 🥺 I'll make sure to keep myself a little mysterious then so we'll never run out of things hehe

I did not mean to make you sad. I wuv you girl. If you want to be more mysterious...I'm ok with that 😆

Aww nooo you didn't make me sad!! You were v encouraging ☺️ I'll adjust my "mysteriosity" but I feel like you'll get to know me over time by my posts and comments hehe

That's kool 😎

yeh well i knew those secret messages were bait so MEH

Hahaha it's not because of that.. You did it anyway 😛

Are you hurting?

I guess you can say so...

Do you want to talk about it?

Hm I appreciate the willingness to hold space to talk.. 🙂 Maybe at another point if I feel the need to, I'll reach out and message you. I think right now, I'm still figuring out things myself. You're very kind thank you 🙏💗

In case you are worried, you are not a burden.

I can say that doing that for the longest time has made me a completely different person over time and I'm actively trying to be a little more selfish when I need to be I'm tired of compromising my own happiness for others and never getting anything in return had to learn that the hard way in the past couple of months

Having gone through that and knowing that it changed you is painful. I'm glad that you are trying to find balance in yourself 🙏💗

=Sigh= ok fine. I can take a hint 🍓🤣 I hope your new day is for you!

Thanks Davis!! 🤗 I'll seize my day today. Hehe I think you've got the wrong hint..

Whew 😅🤣

Here, let me help ☺️

Saved yet-another day, Zoey-nator. Time to get your statue at the capital🙂🙃

Hahaha in Davitropolis 🤭

Haha where you're the mayor!

And you're the citizen??? You should be the mayor lol 😂

I can be the guy on the sidewalk playing guitar for spare change. Community!

It's healthy to be a little bit selfish and look out for our own interests first.

Agreed! But sometimes it's always so context dependent that you get lost in all the layers... 🙈

Maybe there are too many layers sometimes. The best things in life are simple and straightforward.

Agreed as a people pleaser like myself this is always good to hear.👍

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