What the actual heck

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I'm so lonely it's not even funny. I don't usually don't rant like this but i think I'm actually going insane. I have no friends, No partner, my phone is always dry... my coworkers have no interest in getting to know me better ( but are all really close to each other)...And I barely even talk to my own family. I just wanna cry 24/7. I feel so alone it hurts

Why do you feel like you are alone? Like are you lacking in something? Are you boring? Why do you think it is like this? Just be honest. I went through very similar things. Everything can be figured out

Nobody seems to wanna be around me. I can't keep a relationship and the vibe changes when I come around. Maybe people just think im annoying

How many people have you really opened up to in your life? How many of these people know your secrets? Do you have any secrets? And what was the difference to your last amazing experience socially to now? What has gone wrong? Just be open please :)

I'm not open to everyone. I'm open about different things to different people. Nobody truly knows me

I think we're open to those who receive us, and someone should truly know you. You're a smart, polite, good thinking, great looking young woman with the 🌎 world at your fingertips. If it weren't true, I would have then told you so.

I'm lonely too

I hope that changes soon :) Lonely isn't a nice feeling :(

I can say that on media, a middle finger in your photo just sent half or more walking the other direction. I get it, it's a popular thing, and an un-attractive thing at the same time....

I just like the picture...We were doing a musical production and someone took my phone and started taking pics of me so i flipped her off.

Understood. How can anyone know that? No worries.

Thank you for telling me that. You could've said it was especially for me. Lol. You took the time to let me know and that's what's up. XOX

I'm sorry you are going through this, but please know you are not alone. It's driving me insane too.

I'm sorry to hear that

I hope I can rant in solidarity 🥲. I can still converse with people just fine, but something atrophied over the pandemic. I manage to talk to some old friends and family enough so I can remember how to socialize, but that always feels more like.. obligation? might not be the right word, but more like checking in than being interested in anything I have to say. I completely have no idea how to build new friendships anymore, it's so exhausting to socialize when I just don't click with most people beyond a surface level. Even more exhausting when its not mutual and the rare person I have any motivation to befriend. Maybe I'll stumble across some new friends and feel connected again, so I'm working on trying to accept and make the loneliness as bearable as I can, it's all I got. I wouldn't want anyone to feel this way. I'm sorry you are going through this, I hope everything gets better for you.

Hey Chris! I went through the exact same thing over the pandemic. Lost a lot of friends and stopped talking to my family. I have just recovered a little quicker than you. You will too! First step is to let it all out to someone. Even if it makes you feel embarrassed or uncomfortable or awkward or inferior. Just let it out. It always gets better. Then look into the internet and search for specific feelings that you feel like are holding you back and try and find out what needs to be done. Hope this helped!

Same here. Been this way for about five years now.

I feel u. Sometimes i try to make myself feel better by saying”u dont need anyone” but..after some time passes,i realise again and again,im freaking lonely,im almost constantly feel empty or angry.

SAME GIRL, SAME

This is quite relatable. It's very easy to feel this way these days. Seems very difficult to have a social life.

If you can bit a baby carrot in half you have the strength to bite your finger off

I've felt this way countless times, even recently. You just have to go out and create your own fun sometimes. Find something to fill your time. I started streaming on meetme last year and that helped me a lot having peeps to talk.

I feel that sometimes even whn i ahve people around, if you want to make a freind you can message me in down to talk if you want