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Jonathan
10 days ago
Do you attractive people get annoyed when an ugly person approaches you and tries to engage in a conversation with you? I've always felt very uncomfortable talking to most women who are attractive because I feel like they would hate to see ugly guys even speak to them. Am I thinking nonsense and women only care if I hit on them rather than just have a conversation? I would love to hear your feedback as I'm autistic and social engagements are a total drag to me.
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Rick
10 days ago
Do you talk to unnatractive girls?
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Tyler
10 days ago
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Jonathan
10 days ago
Not really but I don't have a lot of time for that. I do more often talk to women far older than me and have a blast with them. Also, I get along well with the little girls I know in my family and friends who are dads.
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Jarrett
10 days ago
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Spykid
10 days ago
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8🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
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Maximillian
10 days ago
It's really what's on the inside that matters and the people that don't take the time to realize that are the real ugly people. We are all on earth to be us and no one else and one day we will find people to cherish the real us.
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Jonathan
10 days ago
I agree man your a child of God just like everyone else and god loves all his children equally.
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Real Human
10 days ago
Some do, it very much depends on the individual. I don't think you look ugly though if you are concerned about that
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Luvu4ia
10 days ago
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4Attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder. But, personally I try not to lead on someone I'm not attracted to. And you are right, we are all God's children. I believe there's someone for everyone. There has to be. I don't believe God wants us to go through this life alone. We won't because He will be with us. It's hard to find people who see what's happening to this once great nation. I remember how proud we were to have Made in America items when I was a kid. Times have changed. Also, I love your dog. It's beautiful!
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Jonathan
10 days ago
Well, the reality is that the majority of people do see what's going on in our nation right now but a lot of them either do not care or Are too scared or nonconfrontational to do anything about it And then there's about a degenerate 30% that just want to do whatever feels good and And use the arm of the government to force people should they dare to not endorse their actions. but also they will steal your money because if you Have more money than them then it's inequality and that's not fair that's not right it doesn't matter if they never worked a day in their life they deserve the same money at the end of the day as you. But back To on topic, I think most people will end up with someone but I don't think everyone is destined to have a partner by god.
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David
10 days ago
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1It depends on the woman. Individually they care to varying degrees about looks. The ones who do are subjective ie one might like the look of you another might not. And also there are things like charisma, intelligence and humour that come into play, though admittedly it's easier to showcase those offline than on a dating app. Though in boos case the forum certainly helps. Most people fall into the average range, either lower or higher end of the scale. There are very few people statistically speaking who are very unattractive looking or very gorgeous. I suppose the extremes of each spectrum would be deformed people then for example Henry cavill or Paul Newman. Myself, I've had women both like me and reject me, but that's par for the course. Im quite masculine now but for years i was very boyish and geeky looking with hair. As a bald guy I'm in that unique situation us folically challenged are in that bald is a deal breaker for some women, so even if they like your face they can't get past not having hair to run their fingers through. Other women love bald guys, it tends to be women become more forgiving of baldness as they age because the older men the same age as them are increasingly losing their hair. So for me I quite like some of my pics, but I get some women liking me and others not which is fair enough I think. Some guys would get more attention and others less. But I'm quite academic and told intelligent, and also a good conversationalist ive been told so those help me too. But I've gone off on a tangent. Believe me I know what it's like to have body image issues especially when young. But you look normal enough to me anyway so try not to worry. Maybe try buffing up as a nice body can't hurt your chances. Your face looks normal to me tho. I think you'd look good with a toned body and with shaving your head. Black guys always suit shaved heads. But you're young and will grow into it Also bear in mind that some of these celebrities, especially the male ones, are overrated in the looks department cos of women being attracted to money and status. Some of them honestly wouldn't get a second look from many people if they were a regular person walking about Walmart with 10 dollars to their name. Plus some of them have creepy outlooks on life. So don't feel inferior to them or judge yourself next to them.
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Arisuke
9 days ago
1w9
1Define ulgy
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Jonathan
9 days ago
Someone who is unpleasant or repulsive, especially in the appearance of people they are attracted to.
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Arisuke
9 days ago
1w9
1A woman does not judge a man solely by appearance. Sure appearance does make an impression but personality and body language goes along with it .you probably feel this way because of what you think of yourself so you just need to work on yourself but that's just my two cents
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Tempest
9 days ago
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3I speak to everyone equally I dont care if they are attractive or not. But I feel the same way with attractive guys. But in my experience they only wanted sex from me and no desire to know me
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Tempest
9 days ago
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3I can see why girls dont want to talk to you
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Jonathan
9 days ago
@Tempest yeah well people do not like cold hard truth and women loving talking to me but the immature girls my age can kick rocks for all I care. :)
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Tempest
9 days ago
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3I'm sure they do hence your post
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Ajay
10 days ago
Short answer no.
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#psychology
Savannah
1 day ago
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Jarrell
1 day ago
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TJ
1 day ago
1w2
1Do you use your turn signal when there’s nobody around? Do you return your shopping cart if there’s no corral around?
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Jose
1 day ago
Honestly right now having one of those moments, I just am unsure anymore, so thought I post for some positivity, at least.
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Leia (nickname)
5 hours ago
5w4
5Memory is stitched into the scabs of old wounds, and trauma is the blood you bleed when someone picks at it.
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Life
3 hours ago
9w1
9Doctors evaluated 80 patients with irritable bowel syndrome. Patients given a placebo were told they were given such. These patients reported a 30% reduction in subjective perception of symptoms. This evidence suggests that a placebo effect works even when it is known to be a placebo. Placebo's work best in areas where the perception of a thing can change the outcome of negative subjective perception. Such as depression, pain, loneliness, etc. A placebo can not change underlying symptoms, such as cancer directly. How could you intentionally use placebo knowing this new evidence?
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Sam
1 day ago
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4*sigh* I feel cursed with Ne. Like I just can’t understand how to even envision or practically shift to Ni.. however.. both do have its benefits & weaknesses! Maybe an Ni and Ne brain together would be elite.
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Kami
7 hours ago
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Samar
1 day ago
Choose wisely ✌️
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Collins
1 day ago
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Life
6 hours ago
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Dave Spinozza
9 hours ago
Do you think world would be a better place, I people took their emotional health WAY more seriously? 🤔
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Carmelita
1 day ago
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Khai-Huy
6 hours ago
Imagine the person who can really understand you more than you understand yourself. How would you describe them?
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Az
7 hours ago
8w9
8Gotta love this eccentric attire. I hope to always be that recognizable XD
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Leia (nickname)
6 hours ago
5w4
5Good but dormant qualities in a person become more active when lit by the spark of someone else's verbal appreciation for it.
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