Don't give up

You may be struggling right now, you can and will make it thru, just like all the other times. Don't quit and don't stop believing in yourself.

Villano

3 months ago

INTJ

Libra

3w2

3 2

Ok but if she says no then what? 🤷

You can take that up with the law, Sir.

Quia

3 months ago

INFJ

Virgo

7w6

7 6

Mmh. It's okay to give up on things but if you really want it go for it :)

True, but if you give up you never really wanted it. 🤷🏻‍♀️ To each their own, we only have this one life to live, will it be with regret of what could've been or with satisfaction because we didn't quit?

Quia

3 months ago

INFJ

Virgo

7w6

7 6

You know... I used to want to be a comic artist, it was my everything. It was what I woke up to day and night. I study and study and worked and worked. I learn writing, I had to learn how to draw from stratch. Which was extremely difficult to do. But I kept going at it to the point I got carpal tunnel, and I was so determined I learned how to draw with my other hand and then got carpal tunnel in that one too which I started taking anti-inflammatory pills for because I wanted this so bad. When I finally reached the level I wanted to be at, I realized that my dreams became a nightmare for me. I was no longer happy it became that of an obsession. I had multiple ulcers from the amount of pills I took to make it happen. And what was worst is that because my mental health was failing my drawings got progressively worst. I took break for days...then weeks..then months. Each time become rust and frustrated. I felt it's because I'm not enough, I pushed and pushed. My friend pushed me too "I didn't know you were a quiter" shaming me for the idea that giving up might be what's best for me. It's was hard. I broke down alot. After I decided to put it down after multiple attempts of crawling back to it. My life has been SO SOOOO much better. And now I have other dreams, that are just as good or even better. And I would have never achieved them if we're too stubborn to know when it's okay to call quits. It's doesn't mean your weak, or you didn't "want it enough" it's just life happens, people change, and sometime things don't work out. And that's normal. Sorry for the long speech.

That's very true, my apologies if you thought I was calling you a quitter, that wasn't the point of this initial post. Initially it was simply to give someone who needed encouragement just that. We have all been in a situation where we feel like we can't go on. Where we think, what's the point, or is this even worth it? All I'm trying to do is help give a kind word, a little positivity, into the life of someone that may be surrounded by negativity. I'm glad you were able to get past that point in your life and I agree, a person's mental health is important. We all need to recognize the obsessions from the dreams. Sometimes being stubborn works in our favor and other times it works against us. We are the only ones who know what's best for our life. Stay blessed and keep doing what makes you happy. 😊

Good one