Iveren

3 months ago

ISTJ

Cancer

1w9

1 9

Doing Things Alone

I have grown to accept doing things alone. I use view it as showing that I'm lonely, a loser, and just full weakness. But my friends are either family oriented or in an relationship. Im not family oriented and have never been an relationship. Which means they never have time for me. So I decided to invest more time in myself. I use to think I need someone by my side to do things. Then I realize I don't. I know everyone is like I need someone, but sometimes you don't. I missed out a lot in life by believing that. Now I go to movies, shopping, and out to eat alone. Because I stopped caring about the narrative I assume people had of me. But really no one cares. I went get Koren BBQ and they up charge me by 15 dollars for eating alone LMAO. But I showed them and ate enough for 5 people. HEHEE. Maybe just be mindful where you eat alone though. Haha Remember you can still enjoy life with your own company.

heavymetalz

3 months ago

ISTJ

Pisces

1w9

1 9

a true friend will always have time for you Iveren.

Iveren

3 months ago

ISTJ

Cancer

1w9

1 9

My friends are weird lmao. But I take note that they don't.

heavymetalz

3 months ago

ISTJ

Pisces

1w9

1 9

I'm glad you're aware.

Badet

3 months ago

ISTJ

Virgo

5w6

5 6

As introverts (ISTJs), we're productive and better off being alone most of the time but sometimes we need to be around with our loveones and friends because that's help us live our lives more meaningful. 😎🤜🤛

Iveren

3 months ago

ISTJ

Cancer

1w9

1 9

Although my meaningful moments are on their own time. I realize a lot of my memories involved, "I'm free so we can finally hang."

Badet

3 months ago

ISTJ

Virgo

5w6

5 6

Yeah that also works for me all of the time. 😄😎