In my feelings I need help please!? Read the whole thing please!

Today I lost something idk if you would say a friend but we have been "intimate" several times but we both made it clear no feelings just casual gradual lol... it was just fun literally, but every now and then he would tell me little things like I need to talk to my son's father or me and my son's father need to be friends. And I would always shut him down and tell him he doesn't know the situation so stay in your lane. But today he texts me and tells me I need to have a relationship with my son's dad, mind you he is just a fwb kinda not my son's father and he has no idea of what happened between me and him and why me and him do not communicate it's actually court ordered to keep me and my son safe! Anyways he tells me I'm weak and immature for not having relationship with him! So I told him he was abusive so it's better this way he still sees his son but me and him don't talk, plus why does he even care?! Because he clearly tells me he doesn't want a relationship so why does he care about if me and my son's father have a relationship or not?! So because of that he doesn't want to talk to me anymore?! I don't understand at all lol. It's okay because obviously he's toxic but I'm just lost for words! How can someone who says they don't want a relationship it's just sex can get so mad about how I deal with my son's father lol It has nothing to do with him, why does he even care if our relationship was just physical?! Can someone help me understand please?!

He probably wants to take it to another level with you but scared of the responsibilities of being a Dad by default if it becomes serious. That's why he wanted you to have a relationship with your son's father. It's just my assumption. But who knows?

I kinda thought that too but now I guess I'll never know lol...thanks for the reply 🙂

I'm kinda confused also, if you guys talked it over already you would think he would be more understanding. It's really none of his business about what takes place between you and your child's father. You and your friend aren't in a relationship, to where he needs to think about things like that. He should be supportive to you and not belittle. Probably take time away from your friend, or cut him out of your life if he's continuing to violate your boundaries.

Omg took the words right outta my mouth! And I'm done talking to him because it makes no sense of why he's upset. Thanks for taking the time to reply ☺️

No problem, anytime :)