Deal breakers and why?

(Sorry for any confusion. The original question asked about good conversation vs good sex, but my phone acted up and changed it to connection vs sex.)

Yes, that was your soul mate, and now you are doomed to be miserable and alone forever 😂😂

This is for any woman reading this. Men are typically more visual. We dont read the bios half the time. My suggestions for any woman would be: A. No group pic as your main pic. We dont know which one is you. B. No pic with your hot friend at all or we will probably be asking about her. C. ZERO mask pics. Zero, most people hate masks and we don't need to know what you look like in one. D. No more than one pic that is just some random thing or place. We don't care you've been to the Statue of Liberty or like sushi. The pics are to see YOU. E. Post at least 5 pics total. F. Have at least one full body pic, a few up close and a few mid range. G. Lastly, no filters. Please, I know thats a lot to ask but if I advertised I was a Nurse Prac. but then you later found out I was CNA you would be disappointed too.

Pardon my ignorance, but I have yet to see anyone explain coherently why the default assumption is that the dude needs to initiate (and work to maintain) the conversation. Assuming cis hetero people involved... I don't know how the dynamics are between two men two women, non-binary individuals, etc. Wouldn't it make sense to start talking to a match if you're interested either way? And if you're not interested, why even match (and stay matched) in the first place?

What is this universal thing with dudes liking to lay on people's laps. Yeah I get you enjoy us running our fingers through your hair but then you pass out. And every guy I know enjoy this so what is the universal truth to this? Side note: Yes I know women also like this. I'm just curious about the dudes answer to all this. Since I already got the universal truth from the women side.

If so, have you ever ended up meeting someone or having a great time?

Clearly this world has done things to so many we end here looking for love in all the places. Take a chance and try something new. I am one of you mid 30s and lost for romance. Maybe one day I will find it but I dont think I can or will give up. I encourage you also to keep that same attitude.

Honestly dating in our generation is a joke. Everyone is cheating now a days or at least everyone I come a cross

You meet someone who checks all your boxes but... they live too far away 😣 How far is that?

I know my bio is long! But, please, if you're going to message me, it is important that you read it. I have some info there that I'd prefer people know beforehand. I always make sure anyways but it's helpful if the person knows already. Makes it less awkward 😅 also, I always read your whole profile before I message or even before I hit like!

Who else loves a man in work boots?👀👀😏😏

Everybody likes to laugh, stupid.

How do y'all feel about people who use filters for every photo on their profile. Do you mind or is it a non issue for you.

I have several times, but luckily they all failed 🤷‍♂️😅 I expect I will again.

Do any of you feel like you're accidentally picky on dating apps. Like someone doesn't fit what you're looking for personality or invests wise. Or are you like me and mostly say no a bunch cause you feel you're not good looking enough for most people

Definitely has to be physical contact, food and someone who doesn’t mind watching my play video games