Men

I cant seem to keep a connection for long, especially romantic. I don't even know what I said wrong most of the time, but when I like a guy, I ruin it within 2 days. If I'm lucky, a month. Im an old maid now.

Has anyone met someone on this app dating wise and how would you compare this app to let's say Tinder or any of the others?

Hearing about people getting ghosted. It literally happens to everyone. Guys and girls. They didnt feel the connection and left. It's ok. You thought there was more than there was. Well it wasnt the case and that's ok. Yes ghosting is annoying and hurtful but when every other post is someone whining about it. I'm sorry it gets old. We are adults take the rejection and move onto someone who is going to value your time. I value people who are upfront but not everyone feels comfortable saying hey this isnt working out. I've been verbally attacked when I did this. Yet I still tell the person I'm talking to why I'm backing out.

I'll go first: people who chew or breath loudly

I am curious. Do you prefer a partner to lift too or what is it that you look for?

In order to meet someone you looking for and for sustainable period of time, you need to narrow down all of your choices and immediately delete your profile as soon as you got into relationship. Remember, more choices just make your life harder , specifically if you are attractive! You going to be spoiled really fast from attention, loose the time and a hope to find someone special...

I've been single for 3yrs & in that time I've been on 4 dates. Every single person I know has been in at least 2 or more "relationships" in that time & here I am stuck on 1st base 🤣 I don't mind being single but I'm really starting to wonder if something is legit wrong with me?

I seem to hit a wall with my conversational retention almost immediately. Am I boring or just too open?

Want to go on a date with me :)

Last night I posted about hating when people 'switch up' their attitude towards others without expressing why or that they did it in the first place. Today, however, I'd like to post about being the one on the recieving end of that and being able to be OKAY with it. A person will ONLY treat you how you ALLOW them to...by that I mean if a person switches up on you and you are too accepting, etc. they will believe that their wishee washee behavior is ok ****(The rest of this post)-- it is and should NOT be ok. Allowing someone to even try manipulating your emotions/behavior is toxic and irresponsible so cut them off if that's what's going on, no one should have time for those games when there's much more going on more important.

Is the education your partner has, important to you? Does their education affect you or how you view them? I've dated people from not finishing high School to Masters level. I went to community college, and I'm currently in University, and I hope to get my masters. I have found some times that people who have a certain kind of education, have a certain mentality. But, it's not always the case. I recently dated someone who is an engineer, and while he has a high class professional career, he's ambitionless, strives to do the least amount of work, and isn't very high-minded at all. Yet, one of my best friends only has high school, and he has a university level brain in the social sciences and humanities, which makes his character quite outstanding, even though he doesn't have a lot of ambition either. For the most part I would like to date someone who has a master's or PhD, because most cis men cannot handle the level of intellect that I have. I do not want to dumb down around people. I'm quite early, but if I get into conversation but something I know, I'm not going to pretend I don't know anything. I will only do that in casual social settings, and with people I hardly know and maybe don't want to know. But my intimate partner must adore my intellectual quality and interesting insights. But, if somebody doesn't even have grade school, and I can see clearly that they are very bright individual, and they believe I'm bright too, I would date them, but I would not continue a relationship with them, unless they pursued higher learning. Because, that lack of ambition is not attractive to me. I need a helpmate, and someone who wants to elevate in this world, and a university or a humanities or social science community college education helps a person finish themselves, as a human being. It exposes a person to different ideas and ways of looking at things. I am late to the University game, but I can see how my whole being has been transformed by this experience. Not only on an educational level, but also on a character level.

If I were to offer an 8 ball pool date, how would that go?

Looking for either a woman, enby, or transman for either a serious or casual relationship. We can go at your pace. I am married and we are polyamrous. These are separate relationships. It'd be best if you meet my spouse, but no need to engage otherwise. I wanna talk. Get to know you, go do some stuff lol a movie or whatever idk what people do for dates these days. Please read my bio it would be very helpful to me. And I'll read your whole profile as well. That's why they're there after all 😉 (Any pronouns)

Looking for a lovely lady to date! Let's see if anyone close wants to be more than friends ^^