What do you do when you want something to happen but there's nothing you can do about it?

Lol is it just me or is physical therapy staying to rely more on technology then actually dealing with another person? My physical therapist and I are scheduled to work together 3x a week and when I see her she's in the room for about ten to 15 Min then hooks me up to an electrode machine and leaves.. is that normal?

Either on a date or by a sniper lol 🤷

If you can be invisible what is the first thing you will do?

Waking up my daughter every morning and giving her hugs and kisses. She is so kind and affectionate and all around adorable. Just thinking about my baby makes me smile 😁😍

Any one here have an internal monologue? I just recently learned that not everyone has it. I always thought everyone could somewhat hear themselves when they read a book, "talk to themselves", get a song stuck in your head, etc. I had no idea those who had an internal monologue were in the minority. I believe it was said in the 30% range population.

Hello Guys, I'm an Introvert and I'm not good at socializing, Can you give me some advices on how to socialize effectively?

Many INFJs think they’re INTJs cus INFJs have higher Ti because INFJs have Ti tertiary, which makes them more analytical and logical, of course that’s gonna give you the INTJ result because these lettering tests are so inaccurate… You’re really not an INTJ. INTJ have auxiliary Te. I’m tryina have conversations with “INTJs” but they’re really just INTJ mistypes… INTJs are NiTe, INFJs are NiFe 🙄🤯 People really need to learn the cognitive functions…

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Blessed to see another year🎉 Happy Birthday Self!

I know physical attraction is important, but do you judge if you will talk to someone based on their vibe?

Y'all don't see dark skinned people as threats to society and/or as criminals with little value in existence

Loneliness is something I grew up with and something I've accepted. But I lay in a dark room staring at a ceiling, all I do is to be in my thoughts. My thoughts shift to "I wish I could share it with someone", "i wish I could laugh with someone", "I wish I could trust someone to to all the simple things"

I cannot control what happens outside of me. I can control how I react to it. My biggest lesson of 2021 What's yours?

Sometimes we can get so lonely. You might even have friends that you can easily call up, but you dont want to bug them. Dm me, we can talk about anything.

I am trying to cut out coffee 😭😭 pray for me 🙏🏽

If you have a friend, and you buy food. Your friend doesn't have enough money to buy food. What would you do?

It takes so much conscious effort to slow down my Te dom in full problem solving mode and think about HOW I can say it. The problem is never the WHAT, it’s only ever the HOW. The solutions I found so far are - speaking more slowly - using filler words (uhm, maybe, possible, idk) - asking “are we venting or are we solving” - telling stories instead of giving direct feedback (less confrontational) - say only half of what I feel would need to be said to give friends time to process - be gentle in delivery - use softer voice (I am a petite female but ppl tell me I am too intense/scary) This is only a challenge in my personal life, works like a charm in a business context though. What do my fellow Te Dom users do? What do other function stacks think could be a good idea? I want to improve my relationship with my friends who have different dominant functions and make it easier for them