Makeover?

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I've been feeling really down about myself lately and I was wondering if anyone could help me out. Be brutally honest, what can I do to make myself physically pretty? This can include makeup, hair styles, hair colors, fashion, cosmetic surgery, etc. This was me yesterday when I went out to dinner, this is what I normally do for hair and makeup. What can I do to improve? I've been bullied all throughout high-school for my looks, and I really want to have a glow up. Thanks to anyone who can help. :)

You know, they probably bully you because you're attractive. I wouldn't change anything nor feel that you should try as hard as you do. I swear most girls look better without all the things, but that's my opinion. Hope you can find happiness with who you are.

Thanks. Idk though, a lot of the pretty girls at my school didn't get bullied at all, and I even had an ex boyfriend tell me to my face that I was ugly. While we were dating. 😅 So I'm just trying to find out how I can be pretty without looking like I'm trying too hard.

No idea about that part. Some people feel the need to push others down to feel better about themselves. Unless these pictures you show aren't actually you, then I don't get it. Do you stand up for yourself at all?

An ex that told you were ugly to your face? Sounds like a boy you dated but glad you didn’t stay with him either because you are beautiful! Just the way you are

Thanks, I appreciate it. ❤️

I have a hard time standing up for myself cause I don't want to look like a fool tbh. That and the fear of getting beat up. 😅 High school is brutal m'dude.

Have to agree with Krieve here, you are pretty even if your insecurities tell you otherwise. Other people feel insecure so they try to make you feel insecure and make themselves feel better. The only change I recommend is to start loving yourself ❤️

Highschool? I take it you're not 21😂 Anyway,.maybe it's time to train for MMA and show them who's boss 🥊

@Jessica This ☝️ You are a beautiful woman. Own it !

Find a kwoon or dojo. Spend one year of hard work there and it will evolve your world 🌎.

I didn't mean I was in high school now. 😂 I just meant that a lot of stuff that has happened to me when I was in high school has stuck with me throughout the years. Even though I'm out of that environment now, I still feel every word that was said to me.

The only way you can make yourself pretty is to let yourself feel pretty. You already got the physical parts down

Those girls who were bullying you were simply insecure of your natural beauty. You are beautiful and you should believe that. I personally don't like make up. I don't wear makeup but I really take care of my skin. I'm all about skincare. It will make your skin glow as well.

PLEASE give me some skincare tips, I would absolutely love to not have to wear makeup. I have tried almost every skincare product in stores. 😭

Brutally honest you say. Alright. The only thing that I can think of is seeing you laugh or smile (like, teeth showing!) That's all I've got. Sorryyy What was it you were bullied about? What about your looks? Am I missing something? 😆

I would smile, I just have horrible smile lines whenever I do and I feel like it makes me look old. 😅 I've been called ugly a lot, people mainly make fun of my nose, the size of my forehead, the shape of my lips, my skin, and my eyebrows. I've also been told that I look like I'm balding. 😅 There's just. A lot.

You can't even comfortably smile...wow. I should count my blessings. Those people are being hyper critical. If they say that to you, I can't imagine what they'd say about me! 🤣 I hope you're not having to deal with those types anymore.

If you don't wish to smile, put on a grimace, a frown drawn so down they'll think you've run out of places to hide the bodies and will look the other way when you're coming.

People are brutal so is this world. Some feel better about themselves if they hurt others. If someone says that " you have ugly this or that" they actually talking about themselves, and trying to distract others to you. Don't let anyone fool you. You are PERFECT as you are.

Gah...don't listen to them...I'm telling you...try a mole...then fine ok you got a flaw and they stare at that and think the rest of you is perfect.

Lol you can pretend you're Marylin Monroe and go shoot some duck face, blue steel photos. ;)

You're a good looking gal, bet you'd be cuter blushing with a mole.

You will never be happy with yourself if you base your entire sense of worth on what others think of you. You are already pretty. Believe it. Repeat it. Live it. Be confident in your own skin because you can't wear anyome else's.

Umm nothing at all?? Lol you already give off Snow White vibes. Eff the haters and continue being yourself 😊

Omg, thank you so much. 😭❤️❤️❤️ Snow White is my absolute favorite lol

My goodness young lady you're glowing. You're absolutely beautiful don't overthink or over look yourself. Don't compare or judge yourself by others. It's a "trap" that's hard to escape. ❤

I could only offer some ideas that would look different, nothing to look better. You're hot as hell already. A solid 8 maybe 9 with a smile, like one of your profile pics. Try a lighter hair color, bangs, maybe some contouring? It's all just gilding the lilly, though.

Thank you!! I've been thinking of trying out some bangs, maybe curtain bangs. :) I've also debated going blond, I just need to find out which shade of blond would suit my skintone.

I was bullied too, both for my looks and behaviour. I had to cut my long hair to short because they used it for their hatred. I was really ugly at that time. Please don't do any makeover, you are not looking like a fool, you are really beautiful the way you are, do not buy every word they say/said to you in the past. Be yourself always.

I think the makeover you should have is internal. Building your self-esteem and confidence will make you see that you’re more than enough in every way. Bullies are idiotic and have low self-esteem since they feel like they aren’t enough and have to put others down who they think are enough. You’re a precious girl no matter how anyone has ever made you feel. 🖤

You don't need to change a thing.

To be quite honest with you, nothing. You look very attractive in this photo. These bullies were probably jealous, if anything.

I wouldn't change a thing. You are beutiful.🥰

No perm! Lol it ruins hair...strips it. Never crimp...bangs were meant to be long.

That's what I've heard :0 I've never had my hair professionally altered besides cutting it, no color or anything, so I wonder if it would still harm my hair. I do like putting my hair in heatless curlers sometimes though.

You're already physically pretty...

If you just want new looks to try, I'd say see how it looks to go.with no makeup and...idk what's it's called cuz it's not a perm but whatever it is when they kinda curl it and it looks bouncy, I guess? Then keep the dark hair with maybe highlights or all red