#questions

What is something you don't ever want to stop doing?

#psychology

What should be taught in school but it isn't?

#friends

Am I the only one just looking for friends?

#general

Today was rough.

Can I have some happy thoughts, Boo Fam? Pics of your pets or your favorite dumbfunny videos or that wise, inspirational quote that you found inside of your fortune cookie? Anything that made you smile in the moment, so I can smile knowing we shared that happiness together. 🥰 Thank you!

#animals

What animal do you think represents your personality?

#lifeadvice

YOU DON’T CHEAT ON SOMEONE YOU LOVE. PERIOD

Cheating on someone is one of the worst (I repeat – WORST) things you can ever do to someone. To you, it might have been all a game, but to them, it might have meant everything. Whether or not you’re doing it to fill a void or just for the thrill of it, when you cheat on someone, you’re doing more than just hurting them. You might be unaware of the consequences of your actions, but let me tell you, for someone who has been cheated on, it will always be some sort of reminder to them – it will always haunt them. It is a concoction of heartbreak, anger, regret, anxiety, and shame all rolled into one. When you cheat on someone, you’re telling them they’re not good enough for you. That you never loved them. You may beg to differ, but how can you put someone you truly love in such a position? To make them doubt their self-worth? To make them question everything they thought they knew about you? To make them believe that their trust was completely misplaced? “Did I do something wrong?” “What could I have done to prevent it?” “Why did this happen?” “Am I not good enough?” “Why did you do it?” – are questions you’ll ask yourself over and over again when you’ve been cheated on. You don’t cheat on someone you love. Period. When you cheat on someone, they’ll always be emotionally scarred. They’ll have their walls up because they don’t want to ever be hurt that way again. To feel like your world is crumbling, to believe that things like that happened, but just not to you. You see it in movies all the time, but we all know what happens in the movies and what happens in real life are two completely different ball games altogether. They won’t let just anyone in; and even when they do let someone in eventually, they’ll always be guarded. They’ll be paranoid, and you can’t blame them for it. Even if they’re in a new happy relationship, they’ll carry the hurt and the emotional baggage from the previous relationship into their new relationship – whether it be conscious or not – and it can’t be helped. They’ll always be suspicious, but don’t blame them for it; they’re just afraid that the same thing will happen to them again, and they can’t go through something as painful as that ever again. They’ll want to trust again, but it’ll be difficult for them. They would take forever to learn how to trust, and how to be okay. Even if they’ve come to the rational conclusion that their cheating ex is a horrible person, you’ll somehow still fear that every future partner has or is cheating on you. Congratulations, you’re now an emotional wreck and a mess inside, and you’re going to spend every waking moment trying not to imagine the worst because you believe you’re completely broken. When you cheat on someone, what you really mean to tell them is this: “I don’t love you. I don’t respect you, and I don’t care for/about you. I didn’t think about us, and how this would affect us. I was only thinking about myself.” Is just one person not enough for us anymore? Aren’t we supposed to just find one person whom we think is worth it, and always stick by them through the good, the bad and the ugly? When you love your partner, it means you respect them. And when you cheat on them, you’re betraying all of that. Isn’t it absolutely apparent that loyalty is fundamental in any relationship? We don’t need a Guide Book for Dummies for that, do we? So please, leave if you must, but don’t cheat on someone you love, because that is the worst kind of damage you can do to someone who loves you. Author Unknown

#showerthoughts

Small talk

How do you feel about small talk? And I mean "hi" "hey" "how r u" "what's up" "cool" "k" etc.

#funny

Did it hurt when you fell from the vending machine?

Because you're looking like a snack😌

#learning

"for your age"

I don't know who needs to hear this (I'm lying, I definitely know), but adding those three words at the end of what would've been a compliment completely negates what you just tried to say. "Wow, you look so good for your age" is not the compliment you think it is. Also, 40 isn't old. That is all. 🦇🖤🦇

#relationshipadvice

Back hurts carrying conversations

So I get matches on other dating apps, but seems like I carry the convos more and like they're not trying. Is this just a self defense mechanism? Should I be persistent? Or just take that as my cue to move on? I get plenty of female (and male) attention in public. I don't think I'm unattractive. Could use some advice!

#life

If...

If you didn't have to pay for one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be and why?

#mentalhealth

Break the Stigma

I hope people in our country would normalize talking about mental health and care bout it.

#relationshipadvice

How do you ask someone out?

Are you very subtle in your advances? Or do you prefer to be more straightforward?

#cats

He's photogenic 😂

Cat love and appreciation thread,show me your furbabies! 🥰

#music

Hey

Does anyone here also love making music?

#dating

Being left on read

It’s happened to me a few times and idk why. It seems like im making a genuine effort n its not reciprocated. This bothers me like I find it disrespectful. Does anyone else feel this way ? Its such a turn off n makes me lose interest very quick.

#gaming

Video Games

What are your current favorite video games and why?

#romance

Beach or Fair?

What would you choose for a date Going to the beach Or state fair? Me: Either🤣